Being a preggy lady on her last trimester, what do you expect?
Nesting! Yes, you will start having the nesting behavior.
Like all animals in the planet, coming soon mothers will start to prepare for their new born. Though, I did start preparing since the time I know I am pregnant but not as stressful. For me now, I will organise everything in FULL details. I feel I have begin to be so particular and fussy at almost everything and anything. My poor hubby has to tolerate the agitated me all through my pregnancy especially now and is not over yet. ;p
I need things to be exactly where I want them to be. I write down every single thing we need to do, buy, what to remind people and many more. I will start arranging things at home, at work, at other people's home and weirdly even at store (like one time, I caught myself folding messy clothes on the store counter and putting them back properly : size and color sequence). I double and triple check on everything I do. I organised "things to do" in my head over a thousand times.
So, that's why I hate last minute information from people that screws up my preparations, I hate people messing up my things at work and home. Many other things that makes me angry but if I have to list them down then it might take me till tomorrow.
I believe this is a natural behavior of a coming soon mommy. You want to be in control cause you don't know what to expect with your new born on the way. You worried about how to be a good mother and whether you are capable to care for your child. For me, I try to cope by making sure I have everything prepare and keeping things around me under control.
I know, I know, I shouldn't stressed myself at this time and just enjoy my pregnancy. That's why I need my hubby, family and friends to tell me that. Is really important to have people around to remind you that everything is going to be ok.
Noted to preggy ladies, keep reminding yourself that you are already a good mother if you are worried about whether you are going to be one.
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